The Hot Mess Medium Show Ep. 14 - How to: Surender
“But Natashia, wtf does “Surrender” even mean??”
I answer that & sooo much more in this episode, it’s basically a whole Masterclass.
I can already predict (😉) that this will he my most popular episode yet.
Think of it as, “Surrendering For Dummies”, or, “Surrendering 101”.
This entire episode flowed threw my channel after receiving a spark of inspiration and I KNOW it will spark something in you.
I break down:
How to Surrender in simple steps so you can get started like, now
Why you want to incorporate this practice into your life
How surrendering enhances your relationship with your intuition (and how they work together hand-in-hand)
How surrendering leads to being more open & available for miracles, new opportunities & positive changes
How the act of surrendering is the key to experience more inner peace & Divine support in your life & less exhaustion from trying to control everything around you.
My own personal journey with surrendering & how it has changed my entire life for the better
Examples to truly help you grasp & understand this practice
Transcript
00:00:00 Medium Natashia Mack
Hey, guys. Welcome back to the hot mess medium show. I am currently sitting in my bed with my Kitty cat.
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Looking for attention and I just had a thought occurred to me that maybe some of you could really use some support and guidance on how to surrender, because I know that this is a word that is often thrown around, but.
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A lot of people don't have an idea of how they can do that or start doing that.
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Surrendering is definitely a practice.
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It's not something that you can just kind of.
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Master.
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Like right away, it's something that I've been practicing for years now.
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And it's so it's such a big part of my life.
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It's so normal to me that I forget that like I forget that.
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That's something like. It's like breathing.
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Like drinking water, it's like.
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Waking up in the morning, that's how.
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Much.
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Like, that's how big of a part of life it is for me, although it wasn't always like that. I used to try to control everything.
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And.
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Those were often the things that I focus most on, right?
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Would and I mean many of us do, right.
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Focus so much on all the things.
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We don't have control over.
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And we try to figure it out.
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Try to fix.
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We try to force.
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We're trying to figure it out.
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Hyper focus on it.
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Obsess over it.
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You know, for me it was how others viewed me and perceived me.
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You know well, that was one of the big things anyways.
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Are things that used to haunt me?
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Again, I'd obsess over it and.
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It caused all sorts of issues inside of me and you know this distortion inside of me this.
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Whatever the opposite of peace is, is what I experienced very, very often.
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And yeah, that's just like the, you know, the the main example I kind of wanna bring forward. But I mean there's there's a lot of ways I didn't surrender 'cause I didn't know about it.
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But once I did know about it, it's something that was not necessarily easy for me to start incorporating.
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It was just something I was.
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Intentional about incorporating, right?
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And you don't even have to be super spiritual.
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To start surrendering, honestly.
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Because what's gonna happen is if you start setting the intention to start surrendering, it's going to unfold and unravel sort of organically, you know, so.
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All you sort of need at first is that desire for change.
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For more ease.
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For more support.
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If you are listening to this, I I'm I'm assuming I feel like it's super safe to assume that you are in that position where you are ready for more of that, right?
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Needs to change.
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You're ready for life to not feel so hard all the time.
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To not feel so exhausting and forced. And you're. Yeah. You're ready for more.
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Flow and support, whether that's support from the universe, from your higher power, right from the divine that is available to you.
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So first step one is recognizing that it's like, oh, OK.
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There is something greater than me.
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Something bigger than me.
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And even if you're not clear on what that is yet, that's OK.
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For me, that's that's God.
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The.
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That's my higher power, right?
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And it was just a matter of recognizing that like, OK, there's there's this creator who loves me.
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And wants to support me.
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And that support is available to me.
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And so I'm going to start allowing that support into my life.
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Which means I've been blocking that support in my life.
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Am I blocking?
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The one in my life, by trying to control everything and trying to do it all on my own.
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OK. So you see like when you start to none.
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You know, when you decide to start walking this path of surrendering, you start to acknowledge certain habits and mindsets and perspectives.
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But you may have that have been so unsupportive and so unhelpful. And, you know, you might even feel called to write some of these things down.
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To write down what?
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What is stopping me from believing I'm allowed to receive this support or believing that I'm a worthy of receiving this support?
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And just kind of.
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Connecting some of those dots and realizing like, OK, is this ultimately true 99.9% of the time? It's not.
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A lot of those beliefs, a lot of those stories that we've fabricated over time, a lot of it comes from, you know, childhood how we were raised.
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The lack of support that was available to.
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Us.
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As we were growing up, right?
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Or just things that you saw growing up?
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How you were treated?
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All of that jazz, you know?
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So anyways, that's like step one.
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It's just kind of deciding and acknowledging and recognizing all that from there.
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It's kind of like a declaration that you are deciding to make.
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Making I'm declaring that I surrender.
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You can say it in your.
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You can say it out loud. You could say it.
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From the top of a mountain, you could you could be driving in your car. You could be sitting on the toilet.
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Matter.
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You will be heard.
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It's all about having the intention behind your words and believing it.
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Am declaring.
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I surrender.
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I surrender and I am acknowledging that I can't do all of this on my own.
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That doesn't actually mean anything bad about me.
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It doesn't mean **** about me.
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It really doesn't. What it does mean is that I am ready and willing to accept the love and support that I am so worthy of that I am.
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That is available to me.
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And and that's it.
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It's like I'm I'm.
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I'm ready and open and willing to receive, because what's the opposite of that? The unwillingness to receive, right?
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This being closed off.
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And unwilling to receive.
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Oftentimes, for some of us, it can feel unsafe to receive.
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Could feel overwhelming to receive.
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Can feel like.
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Like what's coming to mind is A is a story about, well, if I don't do it all on my own, and if I don't, you know, sorry if I don't do it all on my own, then that means I'm weak or I'm weak.
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I'm that.
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But that's not that's not true, right? And maybe you know.
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You're gonna start recognizing those those stories that you tell yourself and those limiting beliefs.
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Know I did.
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I know I absolutely did.
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For the longest time, I felt so unworthy, so, so, so unworthy.
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You know, that's usually the core wound that we all carry. Is that unworthiness?
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And and sometimes it's just a matter of like starting to question it.
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Get curious.
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With that wound, um.
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You know.
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But from from a place of no judgment like you're not.
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We're not meant to look at those wounds.
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With judgment in our hearts, it really is about having compassion and just being open to explore.
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It.
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Does.
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That make sense?
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So anyways.
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Back to your declaration.
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You were declaring that you are ready to surrender.
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It could literally be something like. I know for me, like, yeah, I'll just share, like, my own personal way of doing it. It's like God.
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I am sick and tired of my own ****.
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I am sick and tired of doing this on my own.
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Am sick and I am tired and I am ready.
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For more ease in my life, I'm ready for more support in my life. I am ready.
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To just be to not have to think so hard about.
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To not have to be in control of everything 'cause. It's so exhausting doing it on your own.
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So exhausting trying to figure it all out on your own.
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And there's so much more ease.
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When there is this.
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Sprinkle of unknown.
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It really is so much easier.
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Wanna know why?
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Because instead of you.
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Trying to predict everything in your own life and trying to have it all figured out and to know everything that's coming and everything that's going and whatever.
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You are trusting maybe without even realizing.
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It means you are trusting that there is a greater plan.
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You are trusting that.
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There is more available to you that you wouldn't be able to figure out or foresee for yourself, and that's actually a beautiful thing.
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Doesn't mean anything negative about you.
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It's actually amazing.
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The feeling on the inside.
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The.
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Stability that comes.
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The sustainability that comes from within the groundedness even when you can just trust that there is a greater plan that you can't see.
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But you will be led.
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And it will be taken care of for you.
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That's like.
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Like just so nourishing.
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It feels so good in my body to just know that, like, no matter what, no matter what comes my way.
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No matter what life hands me like, I'm gonna be led, and I'm gonna be so supportive.
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So what happens with that?
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Is this beautiful relationship between like that?
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All of that and your intuition.
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Because that is how the creator speaks. You is through that that greater power I was talking about the divine consciousness, the thing that's bigger than you.
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That speaks to you through your intuition, and so you will be led. You will receive divine bread crumbs, nudges, inner knowings ideas.
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Downloads whatever you wanna call it, it's gonna come to you.
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And your only job is to follow that and listen to those.
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The other thing that's so divine and so beautiful and so amazing is that it also works through those around you in people, places and things like.
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So you don't need to worry that like, Oh my God, what if I miss?
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What if, what if, like I, you know, does this mean I have to constantly pay attention to my thoughts and constantly pay attention to like this and that?
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No, because again, then it's like.
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Hyper fixation overload.
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That's not nourishing, that's not.
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Right, this relationship is meant to be supportive and nourishing and helpful.
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So if you're you're constantly in your head and you're waiting for the next thing in your, you know, or you feel like you're rushing or you're.
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Yeah, just like super in your head and not able to be present.
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That's not the point of this at all.
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The thing with nudges is they start off.
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When, just in your intuition in general, it typically will start off very subtle and soft, and over time it will nudge you a bit louder and a bit louder and a bit louder.
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And you know, as I mentioned, it's gonna come through different people, places and things, and and it'll repeat itself.
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It'll repeat itself. The thing that you know the the phrase that's popping into my mind right now is like what's meant for you will not miss you.
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It won't.
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You won't miss it.
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It'll it'll come to you.
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And you can trust that just like you can trust in that, define higher power to support you when you decide to let go of the reins to let go of that control and decide that you want more is you want more flow.
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And this does not mean you will not experience challenges and obstacles and pain and suffering.
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Absolutely not.
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But guess?
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When you are in a season of of pain or suffering.
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Or, you know, you experience those challenges and obstacles that divine support will be there the whole way through and make it easier.
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OK.
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I know this first hand.
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And I'm so grateful.
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That I started practicing surrendering before all of my health issues came to be.
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Because there were many times where I was able to recognize.
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That what I was facing and experiencing.
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Would have caused me to give up.
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It would have caused a past version of myself to decide this isn't worth it or I can't do this.
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I am so grateful.
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That I know deep in my bones because I've been practicing this for years now that that divine support is always there no matter what.
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I still have moments of fear.
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I still have moments of.
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I still have moments of doubting and defeat.
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I absolutely have those moments, but those moments do not last.
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They do not last.
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They're so fleeting.
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Are so.
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Minimal compared to what they would be.
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If I did not have this relationship, if I did not have.
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If I did not know.
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That that divine support was there for me.
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So as I mentioned before.
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Surrendering is such a practice.
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But it you know, and it's not gonna be perfect.
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There's gonna be times.
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Where you get shaky, where your your trust just isn't there.
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Maybe there's like a bit of a lack of flow because you are focusing too heavily on what you are not in control of. And that's normal because you are human and this isn't about perfection. This is about making progress, right?
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I, like I said.
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It's a practice meaning.
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A muscle that you exercise, that's what it is.
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Like you're exercising your trust muscles.
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You're exercising your ability to surrender and to let go and let God let the Creator let the universe let you know.
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That divine love and support.
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So that you do not have to do it all on your own.
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Because you were never meant to, just like.
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We were never meant to go through hard things alone without people, right?
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It took me so long to get to the point where I finally let people.
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In and let myself receive from other people and let myself experience true, genuine connections.
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You know, receive the love that they had that they wanted to give me, that they genuinely wanted to give me.
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And that's because for so long, I truly believed I was not worthy because I had made-up these stories.
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In my head that well, you know.
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Because.
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This person in my life.
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Didn't show me the love that I needed. That meant that I'm not worthy.
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It's so easy for us to carry those limiting beliefs and those made-up stories in our head without even realizing it, like it's just so it's such an unsubconscious thing, right?
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That you live with and you just it's so normal to you.
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It's it's just become such a part of you that you don't even question it, and that's why I'm sharing this with you.
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Why you're listening to this, right?
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You're going to start to realize like oh.
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I have that.
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That's weird.
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Do I have to keep living with that? Absolutely not.
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Absolutely not. You get to decide.
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Differently.
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The thing is, awareness is power. When you become aware, you get to take your power back, because when you become aware, it becomes your responsibility.
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Which equals power which equals.
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You get to change it.
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That's like the most amazing part of it.
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You get to decide differently for yourself.
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And so my invitation to you.
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Is to.
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Decide.
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To declare that you surrender and be open to that divine support.
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And it's so wild. Like I I I wish I could scream this from the top of the mountain it.
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Blows my mind, even though I've been doing this for years.
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The divine orchestration that takes place when you decide to surrender it will knock your socks off.
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The way that things just like perfectly align.
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Is insane.
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Like the way that opportunities present themselves, things just magically happen. By the way, when I say magically happen.
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This does not mean you don't need to get off your **** and do your part.
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Obviously have your part to do.
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Is important.
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Your part is.
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Listening to your intuition, following those nudges taking action when you feel guided to take action and not letting you know.
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That inner voice, who doesn't want you to make any changes?
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You know, don't don't listen to that. That that's that's your part.
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But.
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I am at a point now where I can just put out there.
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I am, you know, I'll just be like, oh, I really want more opportunities to travel for work and for people to find me so that I can do that and be of service in new ways. You know, reaching new people.
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I could say something like that and completely surrender it.
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I even said it.
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Because I'm just, I'm putting it out there and I'm just trusting that when I put it out there, something amazing will happen with it and I don't know when it's gonna work out.
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Don't know if it'll work.
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I don't know how it'll work out, but I'm just. I'm putting it out there.
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Right. That's an act of surrender and trust.
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Surrendering this desire.
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I'm putting it out there and I'm forgetting about it.
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And then bam, someone finds me and invites me on an all expenses paid trip to go and be a speaker at a woman's gathering.
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Not only that, I've always had a dream of speaking in front of lots of people, and it turns out that I'll be speaking in front of over 200 people.
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And.
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I I can't even believe this is happening, but that that was all.
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Like this is a dream come true that was completely divinely orchestrated, and this is like, that's a big one. In addition to the big ones, there are so many little ones.
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Just so many things where I could be like.
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Oh, I I could really use a new kitchen table.
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I think I've talked about that story on the podcast before.
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My mom literally gifted me her kitchen table and chair set, and I never brought it up.
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Never even set it out loud to anyone.
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I just I I feel like these things happen whether you wanna call it manifestation or whatever, right?
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So many words for it guys, there's like.
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Siffing with spirituality.
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It all crosses over.
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All.
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There's so many different words you can use for all the same things, right?
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But anyways, for me it's just.
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I know my prayers are being heard.
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I know my prayers are being answered and just like you know, I could.
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Let's say you wanted a change in your job and then you get a nudge to reach out to that friend. You haven't talked to in a long time.
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And you, you know, you resist it. You overthink it.
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Like, oh, they're gonna.
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They're not gonna want to or. Or is it gonna be weird?
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It's been so long, I don't know.
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You sit with it, you make up these stories in your.
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Whatever the nudge keeps popping up, you end up seeing them in the grocery store.
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My.
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And then you have some uncomfortable small talk.
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But then you decide right then and there.
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Know.
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We should have coffee.
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Go out for coffee all of a sudden, she tells you about about the job that she's working at and how much she loves it.
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It's so great. And you're like, wow, that's exactly what I've been wanting.
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Then she's like, Oh my God.
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There's actually we're hiring. There's a position open and you're like, no way.
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That's how it works. I'm not.
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I'm not even kidding. That's how it works.
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It's like it's just it's amazing.
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That's an example of how you know you put something out there in your intuition.
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Is.
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It's it's it's like.
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It's letting you know. Hey, go do this or go do that or this is available to you.
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But it's not going to make sense in the moment.
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It's not going to click in the moment.
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Going to, you're going to question it.
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Going to second guess it.
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Going to doubt it.
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You're gonna have these stories coming up.
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That's so normal.
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That's so, so normal.
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And this is where that trust comes in.
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Like OK, this is random.
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This is so random that you know I'm getting this nudge. It doesn't make sense.
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But you know.
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I'm just gonna give it a shot. I'm gonna reach out to her anyways.
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Or whatever you know.
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And that's just, that's just how it works.
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That's how surrender comes in again.
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Surrendering which means.
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Getting out of your head and you're just you're listening to your intuition and allowing that to be your guide so that you don't have to think about it so hard and try to control it because.
00:28:52 Medium Natashia Mack
You know, going back to that example, if you.
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Weren't surrendered, and you're so focused on trying to do it all on your own. You're looking so hard for this job.
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You are trying all these different things. You are getting discouraged as all these things happening and it's just not lining up.
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Right. But then there's this.
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The answers coming to you, even though you don't know what's answer yet 'cause it doesn't seem connected.
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It's so random.
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It's like I'm praying for this and you're giving me that.
00:29:33 Medium Natashia Mack
Come on. What are you even doing right?
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But then you answer it.
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And then it literally just like leads you to what you've been praying for.
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It's wild.
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I swear it.
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It is a wild journey and So what if?
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What if you just decided to try it out?
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What?
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What do you have to lose?
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Honestly, what do you have to lose?
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Doesn't cost anything.
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It really doesn't.
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Except maybe, you know, you get some of your sanity back.
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Because.
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You're not going so crazy trying to control it all on your own.
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You gain peace.
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It's amazing. So.
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That is how you surrender.
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And you know, I just did a.
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This feels like a a whole master class on on how to do that and how to create more ease and flow in your life and so much more.
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So I hope you enjoyed this.
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I hope this inspires you and I'm excited for you.
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I really AM.
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I feel.
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I feel it in my heart.
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Feel it in my soul.
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I'm excited for you to experience.
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The endless possibilities and and the magic.
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Of surrendering and just know that you are so worthy. Like just so unbelievably worthy of receiving.
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You really are.
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I'm sending you so much love and.
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Talk to you guys later. Bye.
